Happy new year to all!
Now that the holidays are slipping into the past it's time to step brightly into the future. What will it look like for you? What do you want it to be? Often we look towards others for the supports and answers we think we need. We do need support from others, this is one of the many amazing characteristics we share as human beings. But we also need to cultivate an inner trust in ourselves primarily and then reach out to others perhaps second.
Inner trust is something many people struggle with for many reasons. Often there is a history of failed attempts at success as defined by the individual. The meaning and weight that we put upon events or situations occurring in our lives is often wrought with false beliefs and faulty thinking and hence behavior which generally leads one to dissatisfaction. Relationships that have been less than healthy will often tear down ones sense of inner trust and willful intention as well.
I cannot stress the importance enough that people tend to create life from the inside out. If the inside isn't balanced and thoughtful and compassionate then more than likely reaching out to receive guidance from others will sometimes collapse the attempt. If the foundation isn't strong and stable, all the advice one can gather will often lead to something undesirable and unable to withstand emotional turmoil and great moments of challenge.
Having said that, hope springs eternal. When the brain is operating at its best, meaning that it is able to endure situations and bounce back; be resilient rather than getting stuck in a pattern of shutting us down, causing a fear response as opposed to a response which spurs on creativity...then we are manifesting possibilities and generating that future of our choosing.
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Inner trust and flexibility are the keys to a balanced and harmonious 2014.
